June 20, 2025

Fun Fact about the Founder and Family

Though I’m an only child, mom has one sibling, an older sister by only 15 months. She is quite often there for us in many ways and her kids felt like older siblings while I was growing up. Dad has 6 siblings, all younger than he, 4 still living and the living aunts are the lifeblood of the family, arranging the remaining gatherings and stepping up in many ways to provide encouragement and to handle quite a bit. In Dad’s family two of his sisters were nurses and a brother was a pharmacist. Those in my family that work or have worked in the medical field make me believe in and hope for the excellence that could be; and they help me to know that that excellence does exist when systems that work meet effort on the part of the individual serving or treating the patient or training and working with the family.

My in-laws are blessed with 3 siblings each and though all branches of our family have experienced losses, both my father-in-law and mother-in-law still have all 3 siblings each. I appreciated seeing big families on both sides in my husband’s life when I met him and married him and though nothing is perfect we have all been blessed by having the privilege to know and spend time with so many family members.

There have been some reunions with some of the families over the years and I love to be part of them. However, I see how much time, energy, and effort goes into hosting and bringing everyone together so it’s rarely possible. But yet the time together is sweet and truly life-giving when it happens.

A good friend of mine is sandwiched right now and if I told you how many of her own incredible children she and her husband are raising in 2025 you might not believe me. But she is caring for her mother-in-law while mothering her own children and pretty recently cared for her father-in-law as well in the most selfless manner. We were chatting this week about a few of the latest challenges for each of us and I mentioned that it must be very challenging for her and her husband to care for their own home while also caring for her mother-in-law’s home nearby and just acknowledging that I see how much they have taken on with such a willingness to serve and show compassion and to show their kids what it looks like to serve family. I mentioned that I am very grateful that my parents were willing to move in with our family and combine our homes into one home. It makes it far easier to manage one home and to provide care and transportation to appointments and meals and interact with home health from one home base. And I am certainly grateful that heading back to bed in my own home is only steps away from where I run to if they need me. My friend and I talked about how much easier it is to do this because I am an only child and there are no other children, children-in-law, or grandchildren for my parents to consider, to host, to allow a seat at the decision-making table. While the advocating alone is tough, not to mention managing the phone calls and appointments and medications and diet specifications and more, it’s a bit of a blessing in disguise that I don’t have to involve anyone else as we might not be on the same page and that could certainly add another layer of challenges.